Number 2: Do not believe anything they say.
Believe the opposite of it if you want to know the truth. Believe the opposite of what the narcissist tells you. For example, if they tell you they love you, if they tell you they’re going to be there for you, if they tell you that they’ve always wished the best for you, if they tell you they will do everything to save their family, if they tell you that they are deeply interested in taking care of your children, believe the opposite.
They don’t love you. They do not care about your children. They have never been there, and they won’t be there for you. If you want to know the truth, understand that a narcissist always lies, and behind those lies lies the truth. Do not believe anything they say without solid evidence. In our culture, it’s said the tongue does not have a bone, so you can say whatever you want to. You can make up things. Just because someone seems trustworthy does not necessarily mean they are, so do not take their words as they are.
Do not eat it up. Always take it with a pinch of salt and get it documented. For example, if you are involved in a co-parenting situation, do not believe them when they say, “Oh, let’s solve this outside of the court system, and let’s bring it up in a mutual setting where it’s only you and me. Why involve strangers?” Because they are going to for sure use that thing against you in the most dangerous ways. Believing them in any setting is like believing Satan promising you Heaven, promising you freedom.
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